When It's Not Meant For You

No matter how hard you try when it's not meant for you it will leave one way or another. The relationship that you think you must maintain although you're unhappy, unloved, and unfulfilled. You keep giving your all but nothing seems to work. The other person won't change in order to meet your needs as they don't think change is necessary. However, you're persistent in your quest to change them in order for you to be happy. The relationship is not meant for you and eventually you'll be pushed to your limits and either they will leave as you won't stop with your persistence, or you'll walk away as you have nothing left to give. When you try to force people to be the way you want them to be you only prolong your lesson and hinder yourself from moving in a different direction. This applies to other areas of life that continue to repeat as you keep holding on to what was or what could be. It's back to the "If Only" mindset that only blocks you from seeing what is. The same way seasons come and go it's the same reality for life lessons. If you choose to hold on to winter and not transition into spring you'll be overheated and wet. If it's not meant for you then eventually it will fade away, and then all you can do is look back on time wasted. However, you can also choose to have learned the lesson and move forward knowing better than to repeat.

Peace, Blessings, Love and Light

BreezESOL 11/30/2020