Let Them Go

Outgrowing someone or someone outgrowing you signifies individual growth. Some stay in your life for a lifetime others months or years. The need to coerce, beg, or try to force someone to stay in your life isn't worth the stress and pain. The way one may leave may be abrupt, which may leave you feeling blindsided, used, misled, unloved, or unwanted. You may not be understanding or receptive at the time of the departing, however over time you will heal. It is the same in the reverse as healing will take place when you outgrow others and are the one stepping away. For some healing may happen in days for others it may take months, which in part is based upon the nature of the relationship. Take care in how you leave from someone's life as they process this as a possible loss, or reflection of something they did wrong. If someone outgrows you then try to focus on all that you've gained from them being a part of your life, and know that the season has passed. Let them go and let them grow. It's the same in the reverse.

Peace, Blessings, Love and Light

BreezESOL 3/16/2021