I'll Forgive You When

It's common that we put conditions on when we'll forgive someone. I'll forgive them when they pay me my money back. I'll forgive them when they apologize for what they did. I'll forgive them when they feel the same way that they made me feel. When you put conditions on forgiving someone you don't allow yourself to fully move on from the situation. You can't dictate how someone should do anything, nor should you try to force them. Has someone ever apologized to you yet you stated that they didn't mean it? How can you be the judge as to what someone else feels, or expresses and to what standards are you using to measure? How often have you told someone they needed to apologize, which they did only to state that it was a poor apology? You got what you asked for or even demanded yet you're still unhappy and even more frustrated with the person? Sometimes we hold others accountable for our thoughts that they're not aware of yet they owe us an apology. The main factor is us and our need to receive what we feel others should give us in order to make us feel better. Stop allowing others to have that much power over you! Yes, an apology can help to heal our ego but only your Divine Source can heal you. We can choose to move forward with or without an apology. We can eliminate applying pressures to get others to apologize, and allow others the free will to apologize if they feel necessary on their own. The choice is always yours.

Peace, Blessings, Love and Light

BreezESOL 11/11/2020